This can cause injury. Initially, I was very antsy, squirmish and totally doubting my sanity. No misogyny, misandry, transphobia, ageism, racism, general assholery, invalidation, or otherwise hateful or disrespectful commentary. Whether you are a woman or a man, please do not speak for all women. Anyway, I had talked myself into doing this on a weekend, but I waited until a low-key Tuesday afternoon to go through with it. No using URL-shortening sites. Some say that when it melts the sharp edges hurt, others say that the different sensations of the cool behind and the warm genitals gets them off. AskWomen benefits from honest answers with a variety of perspectives. Trail the ice cube between your breasts and let them get wet and cool, then take your man's penis between them to massage him. There is just something so orgasmic about the contrasting sensation of cold on a heated body. Or use a clean cold object of your choice. Linger a bit on your partner's highly sensitive areas, like earlobes, the nipples, the crease in the thighs, along the inside of the leg, along the neck, on the lips. No posting personal pictures. It only took a couple of minutes for me to acclimate myself and be amused with the fact that the ice was melting because my hotness was just too much for those frozen H2O molecules to withstand. Have you ever tried ice cubes? Use the ice cube while giving him oral, again the differences in temperature will drive him crazy!