As for the raw physical characteristics of tightness and friction, vaginal is better in the long run. So I think there is a primal, biological reward system for a man to want to be with a woman in all ways and mix with her completely. I am very aggressive in bed normally choking, spitting, hitting, hair pulling, name calling, degrading, etc…. Your relationship You and your partner clearly have worked out together what feels nice for you, and you are certainly not unique in experiencing powerful orgasms through combined clitoral stimulation and anal penetration. In this study, 32 women participated in focus groups regarding their experiences with anal sex. Around you, you can see that a few other kids are eating their oranges; they seem to be happy about it. The entrance of the anus anal ring , just like the entrance of the vagina, is surrounded by lots of nerve endings, which can give her variety of pleasures. When you have good collaboration, you will notice her body opening up naturally where the tension turns into exquisite pleasure. It will be dangerous. It must be experienced. Some women like it and a lot of men are all about giving pleasure. But every so often, you just wanna go play in the grass. Anus has a different texture and feel to it. The butt has two acupressure points right in the center of each butt cheek. The most common objections I hear from men and women are: The deeper he went, the more pleasure I felt. With anal, I can go balls-deep without having to worry about hurting her.