But after years of living as a lesbian in San Francisco, she found herself having sex with a man and enjoying it, for a while. This question may be met with scorn if you ask a lesbian couple, but it is something that many people often wonder about. As time passed, I found that ironic, because I wrote about a killer stripper and no one ever asked me if I was a stripper. What are you feeling? My attitude about homosexuality changed when I was researching my book Wasted, which is the true story of Regina Hartwell, a lesbian who was murdered by her girlfriend's boyfriend. Despite this, the taboo of lesbian sex continues to be prevalent. What insights into women's and more specifically lesbians did you find? After nearly 10 years of writing true crime books, I was worn out from all the tragedy. The lesbian fantasy is incredibly common, and one that is shared by a number of straight women all over the world. Bethany was born and raised in Scotland and now resides in Brighton where she lives with her partner and rather disobedient cocker spaniel pup. We also found that people who have sex more often are more likely to be in favor of having period sex — between 50 and 60 percent of those having sex multiple times a week or more are somewhat or enthusiastically in favor of it. She works as a f In fact, a few women told me they didn't know whether to come on to me or not because after reading the book, they too couldn't figure out my orientation. But to their upset, I took their question as a compliment — I did that great of a job portraying Austin's lesbian community. Women Research Into 'Secret Sex Lives' Reveals Women Actually Desire Sex If you've ever found yourself yearning to peek through a neighbor's curtain, or wondered what the visuals looked like accompanying the raucous sounds emanating from the hotel room next door, you've got to get your hands on Secret Sex Lives: If you are a lady thinking about having sex with a woman for the first time, a man who gets seriously turned on by lesbian sex, or are just plain curious as to how it all works, rest assured that you are not alone.