And just like it is for men, the more the person giving oral is truly into it, the hotter it is and the faster the recipient will likely hit climax. Until she orgasms would be good, but she might ask you to stop before then. Many women have a sensitive patch just to one side of the clitoris, for example. Many guys report this being their absolute favorite blow job technique. From lying down to sitting up, 69, or even sideways resting your head on her inner thigh helps deal with neck ache. To prevent the champagne flowing out of your mouth, make sure you are below your man when giving him head, so being on your knees while he is standing works well here. It is having your mind clear, but your thoughts race at the same time. More importantly, all that build up makes your orgasm far more intensely when you do eventually climax. So focusing your attention on the tip of his penis is going to work well to push him over the edge in the most intense and pleasurable way possible. But getting those few glimpses of her bobbing up and down on me while making eye contact is so hot, and definitely adds to the experience. Both are good, and a combination is even better. Playing with differences in speed and pressure will give her stronger and often multiple orgasms. I would have put my money on P in the V winning out here, but apparently there's nothing that beats someone going downtown on you. You need to be flexible, creative and responsive. This extra pleasure is thanks to the back of your throat.