Smith refuses, comparing her situation to winter: When Carrie confesses to her that she's having an affair with her married ex-boyfriend "Mr. Sex and the City film Four years later, Samantha has moved to Los Angeles with Smith to further his acting career; he's now playing a doctor on a popular daytime drama. Eventually, she begins referring to Smith as her boyfriend. Smith returns from his film and shows her true affection, which Samantha finds unsettling. Meeting him later that evening out with the girls addressing him as "Dick Spurt" and graciously declines his offer for a drink because of her devotion to her friends' "girls night out" but agrees to meet the next evening. Smith returns to New York in the middle of the night, flying back after their phone call to say that he loves her. In the second episode of the second season of The Carrie Diaries , she said that she came from the Everglades , and that she used to have alligator overturned by car for breakfast. The girls are completely shocked by this, more so that she is in a relationship than the fact that it's with a woman. Reluctant at first to admit she cares about him, Samantha misses him while he is on location. Samantha ultimately misses men too much and, although Maria decides to try strap-on dildos , the two break up due to Maria's belief that Samantha has "intimacy issues. As seen in the Sex and the City 2 movie, the two remain friends, with Smith even inviting her to be his date to the premiere of his summer blockbuster, and introduces him to the film's Arab financier, who invites Samantha to visit his resort in Abu Dhabi so she can plan an advertising campaign for him. Seeing that he is broke and struggling, Samantha uses her PR skills to jump-start Jerry's modeling and acting career, and, once she learns his birth name Jerry Jerrod , changes it to Smith Jerrod. During intercourse, Samantha is seen looking uninterested and pained at being with Richard.