Maria is immediately attracted to her, but since Samantha doesn't believe in relationships they try to maintain a friendship. In season 3 she meets Aidan Shaw see below who she cheats on with Big while he is still with Natasha. Presenting a more straightforward attitude about relationships, usually based on "the rules" of love and dating, she often scoffs at the lewder, more libertine antics that the show presents primarily by way of Samantha , but despite her conservative outlook, she makes concessions while married that even surprise her sexually freer girlfriends such as her level of dirty talk, oral sex in public and "tuchus-lingus". In the early seasons, she is portrayed as masculine and borderline misandric, but this image softens over the years, particularly after she becomes pregnant by her on again-off again boyfriend, Steve Brady, whom she eventually marries. After spending some time with him in Paris, she realizes that he will never reciprocate the level of emotional involvement that she offers because his life and career will always come first. Add to that chiseled chin his perfectly coiffed hair and he is the stuff that dreams especially Charlotte's are made of. It's revealed that Aidan has married Kathy, a fellow furniture designer and has three sons: But Harry was very attracted to Charlotte, and seduced her. Six years later, Carrie runs into Aidan in Abu Dhabi at a market. He finds her in the hotel after her fight with Aleksandr and they go back to NY together. Of the four women, she is the first to purchase an apartment, an indicator of her success , which she leaves in the final season, and moves to a tenement apartment in a nearby Downtown neighborhood. They first meet in season one but then have a nasty break up because he doesn't say what she wants to hear 'You're the one'. Unfortunately, Samantha begins to grow uncomfortable when the relationship talk starts to replace the sexual activity and Maria is equally uncomfortable with Samantha's sexual history, and they separate. He also has exceptional manners and is always considerate in an old-fashioned way.