Something as simple as a little moan, or even saying something like, "that feels so good," will encourage them and educate them further on your moan zones. If you take too long and can only ejaculate via manual stimulation, do your best to get your partner to orgasm and then they can return you the favour. Chocking them or hindering their ability to breathe will anyway kill the moment and any chances of some good action. Something as simple as "I'm going to let go," will suffice. Mix it up a little bit; go fast at times, then slowly. So make sure your partner is fully excited before you bite their ear, shoulders, neck or any other part of their body. How To Have Sex Things you should never do while having sex How To Have Sex Things you should never do while having sex When you're in bed with your lover, the last thing you want to do is turn them off. Not kissing Believe it or not, many people and this includes women don't kiss their partner when they're having sex. Putting your weight on your partner Even if you're a girl! Too soon and you may leave your partner unsatisfied; too late and it might leave your partner feeling as if they're pumping iron at the gym. Not everyone is clear on his mind on how to have sex which feels great. Ignoring everything but sexualised parts Genitals are great, no doubt, but you should definitely pay attention to other parts of your lover's body and focus for some time on their entire body — knees, wrists, back and stomach are highly erogenous zones for men as well as women. Gently caressing these areas will help excite your partner further; in turn, increasing the chances of them pleasuring you back. Nevertheless, it is highly recommended that you make an effort to kiss your partner during the act — it will only add to the experience. Biting before your partner's ready While many people enjoy an aggressive partner, biting any part of their body before they are aroused may lead to pain and discomfort and might even lessen the chances of any further action or simply scare them off. Perhaps because the positioning doesn't allow for it or they are too eager to climax and feel that it might break the rhythm.