She may or may not be well to do, but she definitely appreciates money. Look good, successful and fit — she's seeking younger men for their youthful "perks. Each type of woman below will be accompanied by a personal story and a conversion rating out of 10, showing how likely you are to consummate things on the first night with her. Reasons She Stopped Having Sex 1- The Cougar I had a photo shoot to do in a company's corporate head office one day, and couldn't help noticing one of the cuter secretaries. She's out to enjoy life and have a good time with younger men who still desire her. Simply put, if you can recognize a certain characteristic in a woman and play that characteristic to your advantage, then you have a pretty good chance of playing things all the way to the bedroom that same night. In this way she's like The Player's opposite number: From the Cougar to the Sexplorer , it all starts with knowing how to read and recognize the signs. About 36, she had long dyed-blonde hair, bright red lipstick and wore fairly tight pants, which she was working as she frequently left and returned to her nearby desk. Meet her confidence level and you'll be locking genitals in no time. Perhaps saying that she was trying very hard to get me to notice her would be more accurate. She is often quite direct in her attempts to seduce men. We had a very enjoyable cigarette and chat full of innuendo and smiles and after those five minutes, I was quite certain that she'd agree to join me for drinks when I asked her toward the end of the day. Who is the Cougar? She'll often be a smoker who dies her hair and dolls herself up — she wears quite a bit of makeup and tight, sexy clothes that make her look like she's trying to look like anything but a middle-aged mother.