After all, she is taking ownership of her own pleasure. You Might Also Like: No one joked about female masturbation. He finally decided to give it a bash Stop giggling at the back and it was breathtakingly sexy, watching him writhing with pleasure, feeling him throb and twitch as I listened to his breathy moans. While we still have some way to go, before female masturbation is discussed and accepted in the same way male masturbation is, I for one am thankful that we are moving forward, speaking out and striving to reach the point where it is deemed normal and acceptable. He was not immune to the shaming and feelings of embarrassment surrounding the use of a male sex toy. In our experience, no sex toy feels exactly like the real thing, but the Fleshlight Range manages to come closest, with its soft, skin-like material. Whether playing solo, or coupled up, sex toys bring something new to the equation, complimenting the encounter, heightening it. Is it any wonder that they feel uncomfortable purchasing sex toys, let alone admitting to using them, when this is the kind of shaming they are likely to face? Men do not buy sex toys because they have no other choice. Men use sex toys for a whole variety of reasons, including that they provide a unique sensation and feel bloody good. Cue laughter, followed by an awkward silence. Why should anyone miss out on that based on some narrow minded misconceptions? Of course, he knew I owned female sex toys and was happy to incorporate them into our sex life, but this was a whole new ball game.