If this has been the dynamic so far, I'm willing to bet that the biggest reason sex hasn't been so great is that you aren't feeling able to honestly communicate with your partner, more than anything else. In this position, partners can be side-by-side or one partner can be on top as the other lays on their back. Too, there shouldn't be a problem with you expressing displeasure or disappointment when you're feeling it: With a pillow, you can prop up your partner's hips to make penetration easier. But by tweaking the position ever so slightly, they too can still manage to enjoy the intimacy and ease of the most commonly practiced position. I am and he is He can also hold her top leg up as he thrusts which may not only prove more pleasurable for both, but also gives a little something to grasp on to for more thrusting power. It is important to find comfortable and pleasurable positions that suit your body type and your abilities. The partner moves the penis in and out of their mouth, keeping their lips somewhat pursed to provide stimulation. Plus it's easier than doggy-style because I'm not putting extra weight on my knees, or leaning my body over her, which would end up hitting the top of her anyway. In this position, some pillows can be placed under one partner's hips and buttocks for comfort, while the other partner takes the position on top. It is important to learn to love yourself as you are in this moment. Doing it in the kitchen can provide a much-needed change of scene — plus access to a handy prop that'll help you achieve deeper penetration. I am very scared to get intimate because I feel like he is either embarrassed or I might unconsciously make dissapointing gestures. The Seated Position Another great position for overweight people is the seated position, in which the partners use a chair to have intercourse. Hello my new partner is Wonderful.